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• Choosing Therpay - Going No Contact With a Narcissist: Everything You Need to Know

• Keystone Law - DARVO

• Legislation - Protection from Harassment Act 1997 - Stalking - Section 2A

• Legislation - Protection from Harassment Act 1997 - Harassment - Section 2

• Legislation - Domestic Abuse Act 2021

• Sentencing Council - Domestic abuse: overarching principles

• Sentencing Council - Controlling or coercive behaviour in an intimate or family relationship

• Legislation - Serious Crime Act 2015

• CPS - Controlling or Coercive Behaviour in an Intimate or Family Relationship

• SafeLives - What is coercive control?

• Simply Psychology - Narcissistic Baiting Examples and How To Respond

• SafeLives - Psychological Abuse

• SafeLives - Coercive Control

• Keystone Law - Understanding DARVO: what is abusive, gaslighting and coercive behaviour in a relationship?

• PsychologyToday - Does a Narcissist Believe His or Her Own Lies?

• Bay Area CBT Centre - How to Recognise and Respond to Narcissistic Baiting Tactics

• Psychcentral - 6 Games People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder Play

• Sinclair Law - Understanding Narcissistic Abuse

• Medical News Today - What to know about DARVO

• Psychcentral - Signs of narcissistic silent treatment

• Psychologytoday - 7 Behaviours Never to Tolerate From Narcissists

• ChoosingTherapy - What Is a Narcissistic Family Structure? 10 Signs & How to Deal

• Innovations - Fatal Attraction Syndrome

• VeryWellMind - How Narcissists Use DARVO to Avoid Accountability

• Collage of Policing - What are the dangers of female-perpetrated stalking

• Sagepub - Stalking by Females

• Psychology Today - Extreme cognitive distortions and rigid unconscious defence mechanisms change a person’s perception of an experience

• Psychology Today - How Narcissists React When Things Don’t Go Their Way

• Psychology Today - Spotting the Hoovering Techniques of a Narcissist

• Psychology Today - 4 Tactics Narcissists Use to Exert Control in an Argument

• Psychology Today - Netflix's 'Baby Reindeer' Highlights Dangers of Stalking

• "Victim-blaming messages can reinforce the shame that many victims grapple with every day."

• Psychology Today - 12 Pitfalls of Gift-Giving With a Narcissist

• Psychology Today - The Double Grief of Having Had a Narcissistic Parent

• Psychology Today - Why Narcissists Keep Trophies of Past Relationships

• Psychology Today - Why Narcissists Feel So Entitled

• Psychology Today - When Narcissists Get Together, the Results Aren't Always Good

• Psychology Today - The Secret to Spotting Subtle Narcissists

• Psychology Today - How to Predict Narcissistic Abuse

• Sentencing Council - Using Sentencing Council guidelines

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• Crown Prosecution Service - Prosecutors focus on ‘love-bombing’ and other manipulative behaviours when charging controlling offences

• Male or female stalkers with psychopathic tendencies may appear overly calm to make you overreact to the Life Invasion they are performing. They could send Loving Bombing messages to stay under the radar. Or send other people to be present, which is known as Abuse by Proxy. A bunch of flowers can appear harmless at first to an outsider. To the victim or target, it isn't; it has subtext. Call 101, 999 or 911 with all documentation ready, take photographs, screen grabs, anything small or cars and number plates, odd timing, a change in people's perception. Psychologists play mind games with one or two; they may do the same with groups when they can't be honest about what they have done. Love bombing is a major red flag; it is intentionally trying to appear as the opposite, as if nothing has happened, more gaslighting, meaning they think they can still control people's perception. Everything is evidence.

• There could be a contrast of being psychology abusive behind closed doors but appearing to have victimhood in public. Female stalkers, as female psycopaths are harder to spot, being less overt. Study the people around them, how they act on their behalf. The cover-up action is not over nothing, it is over something the cant be controlled on their terms, a need to control other peoples percetion is a give away what they were doing before fear of exposure.

• Choosing Therpay - Going No Contact With a Narcissist: Everything You Need to Know

• Legislation - Malicious Communications Act 1988

• Crown Prosecution Service - Communications Offences

• Stuart Miller - A Guide to Malicious Communications Act Offences

• Better Help - What Is Abuse By Proxy And How Does It Affect Children?

• "What is abuse by proxy?

• Abuse by proxy occurs when an abuser manipulates others to participate in or carry out acts that cause harm to a targeted individual. These “proxies” might include close friends, extended family members, medical professionals, therapists, law enforcement, or even the children of the target."

• Telling false or exaggerated stories to others to isolate someone from their support system

• Anyone involved in a situation with an emotionally manipulative person can be affected by abuse by proxy. However, certain dynamics make some individuals particularly vulnerable to being the target of or unwittingly involved in abuse by proxy.

• Psychology Today - The Truth About Women Who Stalk

• Psychology Today - Why People Stalk

• These Boots are Made for Stalking: Characteristics of Female Stalkers

• "The Incompetent Stalker—stalking with lack of social skills; stalker feels entitled to a relationship"

• Everything you need to know about Stalking

• PsychCentralCharacteristics Of The Stalker: Know What To Look For

• Psychology Today - In the Mind of a Stalker

• Danish Stalking Centre - Who stalks?

• The Predator: When the Stalker is a Psychopath

• Women's Law - Emotional and Psychological Abuse - By Proxy

• Women's Law - Emotional and Psychological Abuse - Using Children

• PsychCentral-4 Signs of Covert Narcissistic Abuse and How to Heal

• PsychCentral-Characteristics Of The Stalker: Know What To Look For

• PsychCentral-Recognising the Signs of Coercive Control

• Sam Vaknin - Coping with Your Stalker

• Natalie D'AnnibaleThe Psychology Behind Stalking

• Medium - Mirror, Mirror on the Wall Who Is the Darkest Personality Type of Them All?